How to play
Love languages are five common ways people show they care: kind words, time together, small gifts, helping out, and hugs or high fives. The quiz asks 12 questions about friends, family and everyday moments. Every question has five answers, each leaning toward a different language.
- Tap the answer that sounds most like you. The quiz moves on as soon as you choose.
- Press Back if you want to rethink an answer.
- After the last question, you get your strongest love language, bars ranking all five and a tip on showing that kind of care to a friend.
- Send your result, then ask friends or family to take it too.
Controls
- Pick one of the five answers on each question. There is no Next button.
- Back returns to the previous question. From the result, it reopens the last question.
- Take it again starts over with a clean slate.
- Share my result (when your device offers a share menu) and Copy link send a link to your result card. If copying fails, the link shows up in a box.
- Start this life in LifeSim, free opens a life based on your result in a new tab.
Tips
- Swap results with a best friend, a parent or a sibling. Their top language tells you what actually makes them feel cared for.
- Don't skip your second language. Many people have two that sit close together in the bars.
- It isn't only about dating. Friendships, family and teammates count just as much.
- In a class or club, take it as a group and talk about the different ways people like to be thanked.
FAQ
Do I need to be dating someone to take it?
No. Nearly every question involves friends or family, and love languages apply to any close bond.
Is this Gary Chapman's official quiz?
No. The five categories come from his book, but the questions here are original, and the quiz has no connection to him or his publisher.
Is the love language quiz free?
Yes. It asks for no account or email address, and there are no ads from other companies inside it. Retake it whenever you like.